Healthy babies cry
Why do babies cry?
Crying is a normal, everyday event in the lives of most babies. Since they can’t talk right away, crying is the only way babies have to communicate that they need something.
Did you know?
- 80 to 90% of babies have crying spells.
- Crying spells can last 20 to 60 minutes or longer.
- Many babies cry more at 6 to 8 weeks than they do at birth.
- Crying may not be consolable.
- Never shake a baby.
Responding quickly to your baby’s cries isn’t going to create a spoiled child. In fact, it will actually help your baby develop in important ways and will help your baby feel safe and secure.
What baby might be saying?
“I’m hungry”
Signs of hunger include mouthing, sucking, smacking lips and searching with an open mouth. Pay close attention to your baby’s feeding cues and feed your baby before they start crying.
“I’m gassy”
Gas can make your baby uncomfortable. Try these tips:
- Burp your baby often.
- Hold your baby.
- Gently rock or walk with your baby.
- Lay your baby on their back and move their legs in a gently bicycling motion.
Herbal medicines should not be given to babies who are gassy and crying. They may be harmful.
“I’m bored”
You can make your baby’s world more interesting by giving them different things to listen to and look at. Try using bright colours, pictures, and mirrors, a toy, music, rattles, faces and voices.
“I’m overstimulated”
Some babies can easily become “overloaded” with lots of activity. Learn to know when your baby is overstimulated and how to calm them.
“I’m not feeling well”
If your baby’s cry sounds different or your baby seems to be in pain, see your healthcare provider or call Telehealth Ontario at 1.866.797.0000.
“I’m lonely”
Gently cuddle your baby while you sing, coo or talk to them. Your baby needs to feel your touch and hear your voice to feel secure and loved. Also, try gently rocking or walking to soothe your baby.
“I’m wet or dirty”
Check your baby’s diaper, and if needed, change it.
“I’m too hot or too cold”
Your baby may be wearing too many layers of clothing or not enough. Dress your baby like you are dressed, and then add one extra layer, such as a sweater or a blanket.
Shaken Baby Syndrome
Shaken Baby Syndrome happens when a baby is violently shaken. Shaking a baby can lead to lifelong permanent disabilities, such as damage to the brain, blindness or paralysis, or even death.
No child at any age should ever be shaken.
Shaking a baby is dangerous because:
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- Their heads are big and heavy compared to their body size
- Their neck muscles are weak
- Their brains are still developing
If you are feeling frustrated or angry, take a deep breath and put your baby down in a safe place and walk away for a short time. Never shake a baby.
Where to get help
Attempting to soothe your baby is important but sometimes there is no reason for the baby to be crying, and there is nothing you can do.
Being a parent or caregiver isn’t always easy. It’s okay to reach out for help if you feel stressed. Call your healthcare provider for help if you are feeling overwhelmed. If it is an emergency call the 24-hour crisis line at 705.675.4760.
For more information about infant crying, call the Health Information Line.
This item was last modified on September 5, 2024